Things that make you go hmmm…
Good Monday morning, bloggers.Maybe you guys can help me out with this: why is it as soon as you’re in a relationship, guys are all up in your grill trying to chat? But when you were single nobody had any time for a sister?
I’ve been noticing it more and more. And, I know, if The Boyfriend and I were to part ways, every darned thing would dry up and there would be a drought. Not an eligible, decent man would be found for miles and I would gripe and fret.
Hmmm… What do you guys think?
posted by Urban Sista @ 10:14 AM
15 Comments:
girl i need to give you some of my magic potion. my options never dry up! LOL
(kidding)
I think folk are lazy. They arent willing to check you when you are single but let you have a significant other and they figure you must be a good catch so now they want you.
i just quote mike jones (actually i dont but i figured it might be an appropriate quote) 'back then they didnt want me now i'm hot they all on me' lol
Is it because most men are just thrifiling...huummmm
But the thing is, I'm not with the Boyfriend when these dudes get friendly. I've heard other women and men say the same thing. So, I am puzzled... what makes someone who's taken look more appealing -- especially if your significant other isn't with you?
@marlo - yes, I need the recipe to the elixir :)
i guess its all the pheromones from the good sex you must be getting that make the men go crazy...
that is a great question. When I am coupled up I get the same response. I have heard that men detect some sense of confidence, satisfaction, blah blah..but that is weird because I always THINK I have this kinda vibe already going, LOL...yea clearly, I am a diva, lawd, I need help.
I don't check for dudes much when I am single and I definitely don't when I am coupled up so it is really a weird ...phenomenon?
@starfoxx15 - I wouldn't say they were going crazy... but, then, why be humble? I'm a hot girl :) Maybe it's my natural hot girlness...
@wise diva - I think there needs to be a study or something 'cause it's strange...
I feel you, when I had a girlfriend it seemed that women were coming out of the woodwork.
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Ive noticed that when I'm single it's the hardest thing to find a girl, but when I'm hooked up with a girl, sistas are throwing themselves at my feet. Whats up with that?
I think that for many people unavailability is sexy.
It's a challenge. It all goes back to abandonment issues from their childhoods..;)
But seriously, when you're with someone, you don't give off that "I'm available, I'm soo available no...really..." vibe, that is a turn off for many people.
It's like you're always more attractive to the opposite sex when you want nothing to do with them, and you're not looking.
Girl, that's the question EVERYONE wants an answer to...lol
I think It's that a lot of men want what they cant have...a lot of women are the same way too though.
I think this is especially true at the beginning of a relationship. You are happy, you are having lots of sex, you are pumping out hormones that are attracting people to you. I always notice that it slows down once the relationship ends its honeymoon phase.
I always knew men had that problem but I never heard a femal say it. I think women do it because they feel like you must be about something if another woman wants you. if you are single then there must be something wrong. Great post.
There is a sexy swagga that we have when we are being romanced. It's inviting and it's attractive.
That's why stangers are all in your face, they have no clue that you are dating.
1st time on your site, I'll be back.
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